OK so story time.
From the ages of about 12 to 19, I was a serious athlete. I played year round field hockey. Year fucking round. I attended the types of camps and leagues that required 8 hours of play a day and were scouting grounds for college and national teams and shit.
I loved playing field hockey, but my body was maybe not so enamored with the sport.
Here’s the thing: puberty coinciding with hardcore athletics is not always a good combination. By the end of my first season, I had collapsing arches and was wearing a knee brace. But things didn’t end there.
I think the problem was that I had a really bad coach. She was of the opinion that players should be praised for ignoring injuries. I remember one time, there was a girl who actually BROKE HER THUMB in the middle of the game. So instead of sitting it out (because of injuring it more) the girl borrowed a thumb cast from a girl who ALREADY had broken her thumb and played on…in OT. This girl risked permanently damaging her thumb.
For a high school sports game.
And then got VIP for the game because “SHE NEVER GAVE UP.”
So anyways, my senior season rolled around and as I mentioned, my body was pretty much being pushed to the limits. At practice one day, I rolled my ankle running. I stopped and paused to make sure I could put weight on it (because I wasn’t sure how hurt I was) and my coach yelled at me for stopping. “YOU SLACKER KEEP GOING THAT’S NOT HOW VARSITY ATHLETES RUN.” Or something. And then I kept going (on an ankle that was already unstable) and ended up hearing a really bad SNAP/CRUNCH sound and collapsing because my ankle could no longer bear my weight.
I had to be carried off the track by some trainers.
When I went to the hospital, the doctor told me I had actually sprained my ankle in MULTIPLE places. I ended up with crutches for about 4 weeks, and had to have my ankles taped and wear a brace for the rest of the season…and never really regained my mobility and flexibility until about three years later.
So where am I going with this?
Pain is not “weakness.” Injuries are NOT something to just POWER THROUGH. these are actually VERY STUPID things to do. You don’t want to get hurt permanently, or even worse than you already are.
Telling people to not be wimps and suck up injuries is incredibly harmful and risky. There’s a HUGE difference between being lazy and being LEGITIMATELY INJURED and current sports culture really venerates equating the two. It’s not awesome or something to be praised…it’s actually sort of stupid.
So…if you are working out, if you ARE just getting into a sport…pay attention to your body! Pain is a good gage to determine what your body is ready for and what it’s not! General muscle soreness is one thing, and something I think most people can differentiate between “oh god I’m just out of shape” from “oh god I think I have a stress injury because I overdid it oops.”
If you DO overdo something and feel some swelling or sharp pain or localized tenderness (even blisters—sidenote, I once had blisters within blisters so badly that there was the danger of rubbing down to the bone…and also I’ve gotten infected blisters before and those are NOT FUN and CAN LEAD TO BLOOD POISONING PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE BLISTERS)…don’t ignore it. DON’T feel ashamed for taking it easy on yourself. Because permanent damage is just that…permanent.
So here’s my take on the whole “getting in shape” thing:
- Stretching is almost more important than your actual routine. If you stretch and warm up properly, there’s less risk for injury and more possibility of going longer and harder because your body is primed properly!
- Hydrate yourself. Don’t feel weak for doing this. That’s just silly. Your body runs on water (and other things). You can’t run on empty! And even when you try….just…it’s not pretty. Trust me. You can’t work out if you’ve fainted and are unconscious, right?
- Sometimes you will be hardpressed to get out of bed and get started. You will feel like rolling around in something soft and crying. This is OK. Personal days are OK. Just make sure your schedule doesn’t completely fall by the wayside—one of the hardest things to do is starting after you’ve stopped completely.
- But missing one or two days just to recuperate is nOT stopping completely
- And if you do injure yourself acutely—be it a sprain, strain, or stress fracture, LISTEN TO YOUR DOCTOR. If they say you shouldn’t be using it…don’t use it. Fuck anybody who tells you “well a little is OK.” It’s probably not.
- Have fun. Stay positive. Don’t let anybody dictate what you SHOULD be doing (unless that person is a trained and licensed professional whom you have hired and/or consulted in a professional setting in which case you should probably listen to them because that’s why they’re there). But remember: the person who knows your body best is yourself.
Our society basically treats it as if EVERYONE was supposed to train like they’re a professional athlete.
Train to be able to do what you want to do in your daily life, within your ability. For most people, that can be as simple as walking and minimal weight training and otherwise mindful ergonomics.
But the thing that always gets left out is the idea that “Training harder = improvement”. This isn’t Dragonball where injuries make you more awesome next fight. Over training things can cause permanent damage to joints or ligaments - and those don’t repair well.
Medieval Islamic Map of the World, ca. 1300 CE. South lies at the top in this medieval Islamic world map.
From The Oxford Map Companion: One Hundred Sources in World History by Professor Patricia Seed, which illustrates how peoples and cultures throughout the human past have imagined their worlds through a diverse collection of historical maps from the Paleolithic to the present.
Shawn Hunter + the hair thing
"Rider’s big thing was that he didn’t like his hair falling in his eyes so I mean, you know, you see it all the time, he’s running his fingers through his hair. I don’t think he knew he was driving every girl in America wild." - Danielle Fishel
Oh my god, I was so in love with Shawn’s hair, and with him running his hands through his hair, and with him flipping his hair out of his face… geez, he and Eric Matthews, man… I swear I just melted. XD
I swear, I think it’s from Shawn Hunter and Eric Matthews that I have such a thing for longer hair, and for hair that frames the face like theirs did. Le sigh ::melts::
I’m sure you’re already aware of the anthology being put out by Crossed Genres called Long Hidden: Speculative Fiction from the Margins of History, but the Table of Contents is up now and I suspect that some of the stories therein will fit your framework admirably.
Thank you for this marvelous blog! You have made me aware of many blind spots in my educational background, and given me direction in overcoming them. My writing is much, much better due to your work. I am truly grateful.
Thank you so much and
Why tell stories from the margins of history?
We want to take a step toward righting an injustice that goes back to the dawn of time: some types of people are deemed more worthy of protagonist roles than others.
We believe that all people are the heroes of their own stories. We want to provide solidly grounded historical fiction to modern readers, who may have only encountered myths, fragments, or garbled notions of how marginalized people lived (and died) in past times—or may never have learned anything about those people at all.
By foregrounding marginalized people from the past, we hope to amplify marginalized voices in the present. Every story will make a statement that these voices deserve to be heard, and these stories are worth telling and reading.
Why make them speculative stories?
We want to reclaim speculative literature. Science fiction, fantasy, and horror writers frequently spin tales of intrepid conquerors and feuding kingdoms that have their roots in real-world history of invasion and oppression.
This perpetuates the idea that certain people are unfit for heroism, and leaves many speculative fiction fans longing for protagonists they can identify with and stories that recall their own personal and family histories. Those fans deserve a book like this.
Speculative fiction is what we know best: Crossed Genres publishes speculative fiction, Daniel writes it, and Rose edits and reviews it. We’re passionate fans of genre fiction. And like anyone who puts together an anthology, at heart we’re simply looking for the kinds of stories we’ve always wanted to read.
Our hope and belief is that you’ll be as excited by this anthology, and as eager to read it, as we are.
I AM YES THANK YOU
Seriously, they have a table of contents up with the authors, story titles, and settings!!! It comes out in MAY 2014!!!
you’ve heard of hard femme? now it’s time for soft masc
- wear flannel only in pastel colors
- weave flowers into your beard
- instead of studding your leather jacket, try adding stickers!
- sew doilies onto fucking everything
- wear boat shoes only in pastels and neons